But then, we were all just water first.I believe that there are monsters inside of people. And this is a very important distinction to understand. We do good things for others because we want good things to happen to us, but still, even knowing this, takes nothing away from our wanting to do good. The only generalization we need for it all to make sense, is the one we don’t want to believe in:
We can still do good, despite our monstrosity, despite knowing the extent of horror our hands can inflict on ourselves and more importantly, others. There might not be salvation, or a purpose, but that never means we have to let our purposelessness define us. My father had a dirty deed in his eye and that is what got me here. We turn to god when we need a hand to hold or a shoulder to rest all our worries, when in reality, all we need is courage, to hold the hand of the person sitting next to us, when all we need is spine to accept that we are weak and sometimes need help, no matter how hard of a pill to swallow.ĭon’t get me wrong, we are all monsters, and in a very screwed up way, only when we understand this, can we find empathy for other human beings including ourselves. We resent people and never their god, as if that is the noble thing to do, as if somehow that is justified. Some days I resent god, but never his people. Some days I hate the world, but never its people. Thic nhat Hanh once said, Enlightenment for a wave in the ocean is the moment the wave realizes that it is water.īut we are all water. If there is one thing I could inscribe into my brain, it would be this: Everyone is trying their best. We live in a grey area we don’t want to believe exists for us, but it does. These questions always go in circles, there is never a soft spot, a safe haven.
#The monster within us free#
How terrifying a suggestion: to look inwards.īut if for a second I do, what will I find? What will you find, if you stopped giving bad names to others, withdrew from playing the blame game and looked within? And what would you do if you found the same man living inside you? Would you feel humbled or would this give you a free pass to be who you actually are, deep within? And now the question arises, do we even want to know who we actually are deep within? And are we allowed to be more than one person on any given day? But then I can either name him a narcissist and feel good about myself for a minute, or I can turn the same judgemental microscope towards myself and look inwards. I know a man who is blind to the agony around us, completely obliterated in his vision to understand the needs of anyone except himself. Isn’t it why, it is all god’s will for the poor? Isn’t it why the rich donate ten times more for a cause in times of despair? Take away power from a man, and he will hardly be courageous enough to point fingers, or put blame on anything that is human. The flawed morality of our condition, that we have to present the best version of ourselves, and not the true version, how much a conflict does this create in our heads?Īre all our flaws supposed to be hidden away, in the wooden chest, locked in a dark place no one is allowed to go to, and despite all our efforts to stay away from that place ourselves, how much in it do we actually succeed? Is inhumanity the very thing inherent to us that makes us human after all? And if it is so, do we need to feel ashamed of this? Or do we just accept it and move on?Ī lot of people cope with this, and I know because I do the same, by pointing fingers at others, calling folly supposedly out of goodwill, always, and I mean always from a position of power. “No way out”: The very reason we set limits to our vicious nature. What I am asking is don’t we all know what cruelty all of us are capable of? And if we know this, what makes us the docile victim on days we lay flat on our beds, often curled in a ball hugging our knees, welling up with disappointment that there is no way out.
Someone once said, To err is human, but do we all feel inadequate at times is not the question I am asking, our internal fights with our demons is none of my concern today. I often wonder if this constant nagging in my soul, telling me of my monstrosity, my own shortcomings, my numerous failures at being what is expected of me is it an indication of my ugliness or the truth of all humanity, all human beings? A boy has to slip into the shoes of a man, whether the shoes fit or not, whether it is for show or for real.Ī girl has to metamorphose into a woman act her age despite being years away from that age. The transformation rigid and icky-uncomfortable to say the least.
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